I Got Sick, Then I Found Something…

I’ve been in bed with stomach flu. I haven’t been able to work in the studio so I’ve been reading, writing, and sketching.

On Friday I kept sketching three horizontal red lines 

I sketched them on everything. And when I googled it I found out the symbol I’d been drawing was a mathematical one meaning: ‘Equality’, ‘Identical to’, or ‘Congruence’.

Which seemed incredibly apropos to the present day situation.

Right now we are living through divisive times. People have separated into groups that seem far apart in many respects. There is a lot of friction.

But this is not necessarily bad.

Friction creates energy.  If you rub two sticks together in the right way you get fire; a thing which can either: cook your food, or burn your house down.

The difference that makes a difference is what we choose to do with it.

We can let it tear us apart, or we can use this energy to change, evolve, and move forward, together. The way we move forward is by focusing on what we want, not what we lack.  What we hope for, not what we hate.

What we love, not what we fear.

Three horizontal lines  ≡

It means: Identical-to.  It means: Equality.  It means: Congruent.

These are the things we should focus on.

So I’ve used my original hand-drawn design to create mugs, a hoodies, t shirts, and decal stickers.  They’re all available in select colors and most sizes.

Each product was hand-designed individually. I’ve sourced separate manufacturers for each item because I want the highest quality materials for each specific product.  Everything ships worldwide (and I’ve added UK manufacturer options where possible to minimize price and carbon footprint).

It’s all on the shelves at jamesradcliffe.store  right now.

Side Note: I’ve been loving having the store as a side project. A big Thankyou to all of you who’ve come in to look around, signed up for the newsletter, or purchased a Kintsugi pin.  The Store is an ongoing project which I’m constantly tinkering with and refining, so don’t be surprised if things appear or disappear from the shelves without warning.

Come and look around. Coffee’s on, I’ll leave the door open for you.

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25 Replies to “I Got Sick, Then I Found Something…”

  1. I knew you were going to say you love my rambles! Thanks for reading my comment, better late than never;)
    Yes, I am a superfan! 5 weeks to go. My special dress is hanging in the closet marked August 11th. ,😈
    The new song has a lyric: I want to beat like a heart that’s painted in gold. When I first heard it, I could feel it. It’s beautiful, yet sad. He’s looking for a Miracle pill to get outside himself.
    Hope you’re well. I pulled my back and I can hardly function. Just saw doctor. Headed to pharmacy. Sucks!
    Reminds me of when you got hurt. I can’t really do anything. I’m hoping the pain meds kick in and give me some relief. I hurt 24/7.😫
    Have a good one!
    Sorry if it posted twice.

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  2. I knew you were going to say you love my rambles! Thanks for reading my comment, better late than never;)
    Yes, I am a superfan! 5 weeks to go. My special dress is hanging in the closet marked August 11th. ,😈
    The new song has a lyric: I want to beat like a heart that’s painted in gold. When I first heard it, I could feel it. It’s beautiful, yet sad. He’s looking for a Miracle pill to get outside himself.
    Hope you’re well. I pulled my back and I can hardly function. Just saw doctor. Headed to pharmacy. Sucks!
    Reminds me of when you got hurt. I can’t really do anything. I’m hoping the pain meds kick in and give me some relief. I hurt 24/7.😫
    Have a good one!

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      1. Hey James! Thanks for your tips. I hear keep moving from everyone and I am pretty much doing my daily stuff except for bending and lifting. I start physical therapy next week. It’s been 3 weeks now. I so miss working out and feeling strong. I’m sure PT will help and I’ll learn exercises to do. Good thing is I am sleeping well and long; the pain is not keeping me up. It is just so hard to be in constant pain. I know you get it. My daughter has been helping me a lot. I’m eating light and healthy because I don’t want to gain weight. I had just started a weight loss plan; I wanted to lose 5 to ten pounds by second week of August. I was just eating well and working out and eating less and then I hurt my back by opening a window! Now I’m more concerned about not gaining weight… ugh
        I’m trying to just keep moving; I’m meditating and writing each morning as usual and reading in between heating pads and ice packs.
        I know things will be right again, but they really suck right now! I have tickets to a concert Wednesday and I’m not sure if I should go. I have to drive an hour and a half each way and then stand/sit for 2 hours. I’ll see what the PT lady says. It’s Rob Thomas solo tour.
        Hope you are doing well!
        Thanks for listening and thanks for the hug:)

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        1. You are always welcome. Yes, pain can suck, but things will change I promise.
          It’s good that you’re sleeping well, that is one of the most important parts of recovery.
          Thinking thoughts of a speedy recovery and, as always, big hug xx

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          1. Thanks James! I am feeling better and tomorrow I’m going to start PT. I can’t wait to work out again. And of course I have to mention my boys. Yesterday they gave a cryptic heads up about an announcement at the end of the month and then a few days later another announcement. I called this a while ago. Since the new album comes out in the fall, there will be a fall tour. So I’m thinking the first one is album date and announcing tour and second one is ticket sales date. I can’t handle all this goo; I am still waiting for my show and meet and greet! My daughter got me a ticketmaster gift card and I know exactly where it’s going. And I have a secret……………. on Thursday I’m going to find out if I’m getting free up front tickets for another show. Friend of a friend. Shhhh……….Keep your fingers crossed please. It is killing me having to wait. Recently Johnny did an interview and said a beautiful quote: “I want to make real connections, with real people, in real time.” He isn’t on social media much. I just made this new friend and she said she prefers to talk on the phone rather than text and at first I thought oh that’s annoying, but we have been doing it and it’s great; I feel so connected to her. She is my plus one for the free show I hope is coming my way! Have a marvelous day!!!!!

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  3. Hi James! I love how you are expanding your creativity. U2 did a tour one time with merch with the three lines. I have a merch shirt with the 3 lines on it and dripping down from the symbol. I love your pins too. It sounds like you kicked up your creative side and that’s so cool! I just wrote a new piece for the paper called Doing Things Differently and Countering Hate with Love. 2 months to goo goo dolls! They are opening for Train. I’m not sure how they became the opening band. Their set is 65 minutes, and not for nothing but train is a second rate band. But I’ll be meeting Mr. Rzeznik again and I’ll get to chat, hug, and get a kiss. Their new song Miracle Pill is pretty good.. And since it’s at Mohegan Sun I’ll have tons of fun with my friend. How’s your music coming along? Btw, sorry to hear you had the flu. I’m dealing with my lyme disease. I have good days and bad days. When I am pain free I’m so happy. I’ve had 2 days in a row with no pain which is awesome. I get wicked pain in my hands. It feels like I have the flu in my hands. Sucks! But I try to be grateful and my dr and I are working on a plan. Ok I’ve rambled enough. Have a super day!! 🤗

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    1. I love your rambles, and am glad you are having good days.
      Your love of the dolls is inspiring, I am a big fan of superfans, and you certainly qualify ;-)
      Sorry it took me so long to get to this. It was lovely to read.
      Big hug, and all the love,
      – J

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  4. I think we differ here James.

    To me, any context that forces people into conflicting groups is bad – it is a threat to the survival of us all.

    Any analogy that can be interpreted as people being simply fuel for a process is dangerous to us all.

    Any set of social conditions that dries people out (sucks away their basic cooperative humanity and turns them into something that can ignite and burn with anger and resentment) is dangerous to us all (at recursive levels).

    So No.

    I see the current focus on money and economic value (which gives humans value only in so far as they can contribute to reducing the scarcity of something for someone else, and gives them no value simply for their existence as the most complex entities we know of in existence) as delivering existential level risk to us all.

    We are all individual human beings, and we need personal security and personal freedom, and those things can only exist if we all acknowledge the reality of the responsibilities that come from our existence in social and ecological systems, and the reality that real freedom demands responsible action from us all (there are real social and ecological limits, and we must each discover and respect them, to the best of our limited abilities).

    We are the most socially cooperative entities we know of in reality.

    Real freedom only comes from cooperative contexts, competition always tends to drive out diversity, and force systems to some low point on the complexity landscape.

    Reality seems beyond any reasonable doubt to be more complex than we can possibly comprehend, ever – and that goes for each and every one of us too.

    It is also real that we must act in reality, and in order to act we must each make our imperfect and limited models of reality and each other with the time and tools available to us, and use them to make the best ethical choices we can, to the best of our limited abilities.

    If you want some congruence try:
    Real freedom demands cooperation (anything else eventually leads to extinction).
    Cooperation demands morality and ethics.
    Our many imperfections demand tolerance and acceptance of the many mistakes we must inevitably make.
    Our complexity demands respect (for all of us, by all of us).

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    1. I am not sure if we differ so much. If you look at any period of growth in any context, individual or collective, it is always preceded by a period of some kind of strain. It’s how we evolve. The stress is what creates the growth response – think of lifting weights for an example.
      Many people are losing heart in today’s climate. Reframing the issue in this way is simply a means to create hope.
      Hope that clears it up for you. Be well,
      – J

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      1. Hi James,

        I agree that we need hope.

        I just see that framing things that way has far too many dangers, is far too easy to interpret as something heading in a direction that is not survivable.

        I have hope for the survival and prosperity of humanity, far more so than 50 years ago, but not from competitive situations.
        I am clear that systems based in competition cannot be stabilized, and are not places I wish occupy. Systems based in cooperation can have competitive aspects, but it is the fundamental cooperative base that gives them stability.

        I have been a serious student of evolution for over 50 years, the biology, the biochemistry, the cybernetics and systems, the strategy. Evolution starts simple and rapidly becomes extremely complex.

        Competitive environments stay simple.
        Complexity always requires cooperative environments to emerge.

        We are the most complex systems we know of.
        We are fundamentally cooperative – every level.

        Sure, we can all compete if the situation demands it, and such environments are always high risk for the majority.

        Our well being as communities demands fundamentally cooperative behaviour. Anything you have learned or read contrary to that is essentially political dogma spread for someone else’s benefit.

        And cooperation cannot be naive.
        We need to cooperate with eyes open, alert for individuals of groups or systems cheating on the cooperative; and we must be willing to do what it takes to remove such cheating strategies and bring those individuals or groups back to a fundamentally cooperative modality.

        So it is not simple.
        It is complex.
        It is freedom that comes with serious responsibilities, every level.

        We are now in a world where what are essentially cheating strategies are generally dominant.
        We all have a role in changing that – each an every one of us.
        Doing so will require a lot of effort.
        It takes work to build trust networks.
        It takes courage to trust one’s own judgement and speak out against injustice.
        Cooperation demands that of us.
        It isn’t easy.
        It demands heroism from every individual, every level, ongoingly.

        The hero’s journey isn’t for some mythic character in a movie, it is for each an every one of us, to the best of our limited abilities, every day.

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